I Lost Everything Before I Found Myself

How did I get into such a nightmare? I was successful, confident, attractive, enthusiastic, intelligent, fun, making good money, on an amazing career path… in so many ways, I had it all. Everything except a husband and children.

I took my time, dated enough to know what I wanted. I wanted someone who was fun to be with, confident, intelligent, successful, spiritual, charming, sophisticated yet easy going, and supportive.

So how in the world did I end up in the disaster that was my marriage? How did I let myself end up with an abusive man… an abusive husband? How?!

It took me 8 years to break free. Eight years on a rollercoaster of some good times but mostly destructive times.

I lost everything before I found myself.

If you find yourself in a relationship that is destroying you, crushing your soul and robbing you of your true self, you’ve found a new friend who knows how you feel.  Learning to know and love myself through my Akashic Records was a vital part in my healing.  It took getting to know my soul before I realized I deserved a better life.

Please let me support you through these difficult times. I can’t tell you what to do or make decisions for you. You must make your own decisions. But I can help you know how to make the best choices, where to find the strength within to love and support and yourself and how to live the life your soul intended.

Thank you for coming to my blog. Please come back often.

All my love,
Tara

I am miserable in my marriage. Should I leave?

This is a very common question with my clients who are seeking more answers through the Akashic Records.  Our relationships are critical to our happiness, well-being and success.  When we encounter serious problems with our spouse or significant other, it’s difficult to be fully engaged in any other aspect of our lives.

One of the most powerful things I’ve learned from records is that there are no “one-size-fits-all” answers.  You may have a relationship that seems to be exactly like what a friend is going through, but what you learn and experience from your situation may be considerably different than what your friend is getting from her relationship.

For instance, your spouse may have come into your life to help you learn to speak your mind – to be able to express yourself clearly and articulately.  At the same time, your friend may be facing a deeply embedded fear of giving up her freedom.  By being in an intimate, close relationship with someone, she is having to learn to find a balance of exploring her own boundaries while staying in a marriage or dating someone who desires to be close to her.  The answer for each of you will be very different – but perfect for what you each need.

Another important element to understanding your situation and how it impacts your soul is knowing that something looks different from the outside than the inside.  For instance, watching a friend, sister, or daughter go through a challenging marriage and thinking you understand what is going on in that marriage is very different than what is actually going on.  I found this in my own marriage.  When it looked like I was making serious mistakes from the inside, I was getting important and critical soul lessons on the inside.  I was moving through the steps in a perfect way for my soul to grow in confidence and courage.  Reflecting back on those devastating times helps me realize now how much I grew and how grateful I am that my records guided me through the dark times.

So when someone asks me to read their records and one of their questions is, “Should I leave?”  I never know what the answer will be.  But what I do know is that the answer will be perfect for them!  It will be exactly what their soul needs to heal, feel loved and protected.  It never ceases to amaze me – each person’s records are a magnificent resource for learning and deeper understanding.

Just one more reason why I love Akashic Records!

Until next time friends,

Tara

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Why do I always put myself last?

Do you find yourself taking care of everyone else (even strangers) before you take care of yourself?  Oh boy… I’ve been there, too!  It’s an interesting soul journey to be able to see others struggle and not jump in to save them.  And let’s face it – you could probably save them faster and more thoroughly than anyone you know.  You may even try NOT to rescue others but before you know it, you’re right in the ditch helping out.

It was easier before… but now you’re finding yourself battling health problems, depleted energy and feeling empty inside.  Why do you feel this way if you have the desire to help others?  Why do you go beyond what it reasonable to help others but find yourself feeling sad and tired when it’s all over with?

If this is the problem you’re facing, you’re not alone.  For years I was a rescuer.  I thought I was responsible for others’ happiness.  But when I started digging deeper into my records I realized that part of my challenge was to learn to trust others to become their own master.  I needed to learn that people in my life were fully capable to handling whatever obstacles and distrations came into their lives.  While I can help, it was not my responsibility to “fix” things.  My job is to love and support.  Help and encourage.  But not take on the problem as my own.

Akashic Records are amazing in that way.  Not only did my records offer deeper understanding, but gave me tools to overcome the habit of taking over.  It took some time, but I have come a long way!

If you are struggling with this or a different problem that is causing your trouble or difficulty, reading your Akashic Records may provide an amazing insight into how you can overcome problems or behaviors that are not serving your highest good.  It can help you realize why you are acting a certain way and where the problem comes from.  It also helps you understand how to master the challenge and come out stronger than ever.

Until next time friends,

Tara

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